Parenting is hard. Whatever your circumstances, it’s just hard. For me, it became harder after my divorce because now I was a single parent with all the feelings that go…
I recently read a Substack article by Jud Brewer, MD, PhD, who wrote Unwinding Anxiety and The Craving Mind, about distress tolerance and the value of teaching it to our…
Have you ever found yourself surprised by something you've accomplished? Maybe you ran 1.25 miles instead of your 1-mile goal. Maybe, after years of telling yourself that you’re not someone…
If you've spent any time scrolling through self-help content, you've probably seen countless promises about how to completely change your life in 30 days, 7 steps, or one transformative moment.…
There are many ingredients to change, and this is one that we don’t often think about. If you’re looking to make a change in your life, you’ll want to read…
When I talk about change, I talk about the process of change. As part of that process, we come to a crystal-clear understanding of our "why." It's not just a…
I’m not a fan of word art or these clichés that people throw around as mental health solutions. “Positive vibes only” or “let it go” aren’t all that helpful when…
I don’t know about you, but I do not like feeling uncomfortable. Who does? It’s our natural tendency to try and avoid discomfort, whether it's anxiety, boredom, sadness, or uncertainty. It’s…